First he seemed to have a fling with such a young and innocent girl. In the beginning of August he came from Barcelona and asked me to pick a neclace because he promised to bring one. I was told post factum just like about a lot of other things. Later I founded that from the very start they spent so much time with each other that he would then call it "living together".

First I heard a lot how wonderfull and how particular I am. And that she couldn't be compared to me in any way. I guess he still believes that.

I saw her on a city event in the beginning of September when we were going to Finland. She didn't make any impression, you know, just a girl. She was young and funny; I could see clearly her belly, her lack of waist and breasts, her second chin and face shape (she has a beautifull face but the shape is awfull), those things are important to me in a girl and still I am not attracted to her.

They both were quite nervous and he avoided bringing us together as much as he could, he was sure that I am doing everything to run into her but I wasn't. Once we talked with her for a couple of minutes she decided I had her in contempt, though I smiled and didn't say a single peppered word. She became hysterical and later sent him an sms which he considered breaking up with him. The boy was mad at me all the weekend and it was so bad I decided to break up with him as soon as we come back.

And we broke up which I described here. That was too painfull and I came back. We went to Spain in the end of September, everything was just fine. After that he worked very much and didn't come to visit, didn't invite me and I hadn't seen him for almost three weeks. In the middle of October it was my birthday so he was coming anyway. She cried at that time, asked not to go, though she knew it was my birthday. The girl called him to the airport and said she loved him asking once again to stay. Well, I was rather mad to hear all that. I understood it then as she was very likerish to attention and was trying to manipulate.

Right after my birthday I asked him whether there was any way possible that I move to his city to be closer to him, to make his life convenient, to do as much as I can for him. I said that only lack of job would stop me that moment and he replied that I shouldn't do this. He treats such people as servants, he has no respect for them, so I stepped back. He kept telling me how much he appreciated me and how jealous she was about me.

In a week, when I was in my homecity arranging my new passport so I could continue traveling with him wherever he wants, he dropped something like "L. is doing now all the wife's functions".That made me nervous and jealous. I couldn't understand why she was doing what I wasn't allowed to. My best friend convinced me that he may have said that not with positive opinion and calmed me down. Still there was something not right.